obviously im new the 3ds is the only modern nintendo console i have and i have no idea how to use this forum so a little help would be well appreciated

Welcome to the forums! I'd be glad to help and direct you to the main areas of the forum!
If you'd like to share and exchange Friend Codes, I recommend doing it here:
Matchmaking - Nintendo 3DS Forums
For Nintendo 3DS game discussions, this is the sub-forum you should use:
Nintendo 3DS Games - Nintendo 3DS Forums
To edit and alter your profile information or add an avatar and signature, go here:
http://3dsforums.com/usercp.php

Once you've gotten 20 posts, you can use the forum chatbox, which is a live chat server.
Then, once you've gotten 50 posts, you can see your signature and the signatures of other members.
Do you have any questions? Feel free to ask and myself or another member will gladly answer or assist.

Welcome to the forums dude

If you have any questions, just ask me, or anyone, or just post a thread...

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