Ok. SO I recently started dating this girl. She's been my best friend for about the past 6 months, so we were already pretty close when I asked her out. I was in love with her (or, at least, I thought I was) before we started going out, kinda like that whole "one friend loves the other" thing.

The first day of us going out, I was completely infatuated with her ( and we kissed alot and got very physical). The second day was just as exciting. By the third, the excitement started to wain. Now its day 6 and my feelings for her are whatever. She's pretty deeply in love with me (as she's says it repeatedly and wants to lose her virginity to me).

My question is,

Should I break up with her? I just feel wrong for not having the same emotions as her in this relationship or should I give it more time to see what happens? I just don't want to prolong a bad relationship and get her hopeful because then when the time to split does come, it'll destroy her more.

Lol ok, heres the deal. You got what you thought you wanted. Turns out its meh. Shes all about you and you dont really care anymore. Break it off early, itll be easier on both of you. Also she sounds pretty horny, dont give in to lust and bone her. She will be even more clingy after that, and itll be even harder to drop her. Just say you wanna stay friends, nothing else you can really do.

Like you wouldn't believe........

I think you guys rushed everything, and that's why you don't feel the same way anymore, because you probably got tired of it

This is a good problem to have.

It's quite possible the two of you can still bang each other's brains out without being in a committed relationship. Try to see if you can go the friends with benefits route, because it is well worth it if you can pull it off.

If not, dump her and sever all ties with her. Keeping a relationship going for longer can only backfire.

Boy do I know that *looks at almost all of my past relationships*

I also suggest breaking up with her, just because she likes you a lot doesn't mean you should still date her. I have tried not breaking up with girls and continuing to make myself think it's still fine. They ended up dumping me anyways and I have gotten in several fights with them about stupid stuff.

If you honestly don't care anymore and it's not some sort of denial or phase for whatever reason your brain may have, break up with her soon. Don't lead her on. Don't do anything with her, either. Not only will it make things more complicated, but when you really find the one, you'll more then likely feel bad.

Unlike most of my generation, I see sex as something special, something that you only share with your significant other. I will never understand the disgusting, animalistic lust that much of my generation seems to have about it.

Sometimes, I wish I lived in another era...

ANYWHO, I hope this helps. Be sure it's not you in denial or anything like that. It's probably not, so break it off. Be polite, nice, apologetic, but unwavering when you break it off. Give her a sense that you really do care without making it seem like it can be fixed.

Whether you bone her (storm's words) or not, YOU being her first ANYTHING isnt going to last... So either, take her virginity if you want to, and end up hurting her worse than just breaking it off now.

lol, if you're 6 days in and you're already bored with her, what do YOU think you should do?

I'll be awaiting the followup thread: "Guys, I broke up with this girl, didn't realize what I had, and now I want her back!"

Dude, don't go too fast with things.