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Old 02-27-2013, 12:48 AM
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Unhappy Were you ever bullied? -Sad talk :(-

Were you ever bullied at anytime in your life?

I was badly bullied at my school by just about everyone, even the people I considered as my "Friends" at the time.
Sometimes I'd get bullied, insulted, snubbed out, it still makes me feel bad today.
I only had one true friend, (Who I'm still friends with) But everyone else I hung around treated me like dirt, but everyone else treated me worse, so what choice did I have?

I feel stronger as a person for it, but even so... it still hurts...

This is pretty much a venting thread for people, I just wanted to get this across to some people that I did get bullied.
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Hate bully I think why are people idiots when they can choose to be cool and stop acting like idiots!... But I think I was bullied (still being bullied) but I dont leave them without an insult... I defend myself so I dont let it get over me..
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One time when I defended myself from some bullies (Physically) the Headmaster forced me to say sorry to them!
One of the worst things were that most of our teachers were Woman, so every time I said "A girl is bullying me" all I got was "Don't tell tall tales." T_T"
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Never been bullied. Never been a bully either.
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^ Lucky.

Thing is that my friend got bullied when he first went to secondary school and began to get grey hair.
He wanted me to go to his school because I know everything a bully has to throw at someone.
I'm home schooled at the moment, so lucky me

He tried to make the argument that I would get a girlfriend if I went, can't say I wasn't half tempted.
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Old 02-27-2013, 02:57 AM
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It's all about the type of you people you hang around with. In grade school I was only bullied a couple of times but once all of the d-bags were kicked out, I got along fine with the rest of the kids. In high school I made the smart decision to befriend a bunch of dicks and they picked on me constantly for being heavy set. Until I started getting physical then they stopped.

In college there aren't any bullies but there are still some people who never grew past that douchebag phase (i.e. most frat bros). They're annoying but easy to avoid.
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I was bullied in Elementary, Middle and my last year of High School. Guess what? The people who bullied me now have baby daddy problems or have a bad life now.
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I was Bullied Bad In Elementary School in Florida But on Halloween He Died because He got ran over by a car because before he got ran over his mom told him to not dart accrossed the road and He did I changed schools from Clearmont Elementary to South Lake Charter . He Shouted stuff Like you'll be dead on Friday . In Alabama people are nicer

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Old 02-27-2013, 04:35 AM
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I was bullied once for owning a nintendo system.
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Old 02-27-2013, 05:53 AM
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I am bullied everyday because of my curly hair.
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Old 02-27-2013, 09:07 PM
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I was made fun of quite a bit in middle school. In high school it continued a little bit, but then it just turned into drama. I'm always such a drama queen. lol

My experiences in college have been pretty positive. Work perhaps not so much. I don't always act or look perfectly like members of my sex are supposed to and that gets me called a lot of names. Oh well. lol
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Old 02-27-2013, 09:19 PM
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I've never been bullied. It's probably because I was lucky enough to know some of the "cool" kids in elementary even before starting which saved me from some trouble every now and then and because most kids in my middle school and high school are good. I can say my school life has been mostly good moments so far. Just a couple months left till it ends
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I was bullied a lot during middle school. Probably the hardest years of my life. it was more verbal than physical as I was typically taller than most, but it was a lot. I was a bit overwieght and had bad acne. High school wasn't bad and college was better. I think the years 12 - 14 are the hardest for any kid.
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I've never been seriously harassed, but I've had a fair few people try to pick on me for one reason or another. I've never taken what these numb skulls say to heart though, because they usually pick on dumb things and are bad at it. I never get offended by them, more annoyed by how stupid and arrogant they are. I put them in their place, so after awhile they get tired of trying and leave me alone.

Message to anyone getting bullied: Never give them the satisfaction of any emotional response, except a heavy rolling of the eyes. Don't try to offend them back, you can explain to them how stupid what they're doing is but don't bring yourself down to their level, remain superior. If a bully does anything to hurt you physically, be it a punch or a slap, go straight down to the principle or guidance counselor if you haven't already.

Always remember that bullies are idiots, people without any interesting personality traits or smarts of their own, picking on people to boost an ego based on nothing but the praise of their idiot backup group, who without they wouldn't have the gall to say or do anything while looking someone else in the eye.
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Someone once poured a bag of flamin hot cheetos in front of my locker. Not sure if that was an attempt at bullying, or whatever the hell a pile of flamin hot cheetos in front of a locker is supposed to mean. If that counts as bullying, then thats the worst thats ever happened to me.

EDIT: i forgot to say i dont know who did it. To this very day its still a mystery
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I think the worst part of bullying is that years later you go "I wish I did that" or "Why didn't I say this?".
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I think the worst part of bullying is that years later you go "I wish I did that" or "Why didn't I say this?".

I hate that too! My family was moving and this neighbor or mine who was a jerk said "Are you moving?" I said yes. He replied saying "Yay!" To this day I still that I should have said "No, we just put a for sale sign for fun." sarcastically.
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At the moment I prepare myself from bullies with a jar of Chutney and a small spoon.
If they start bullying, I pin them down and start force feeding them while saying "Who's a greedy boy then? What's that? No more? no no, you have to eat it all!".

I'm a psychopath, but at least I'm a psychopath with a plan
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I've been cyberbullied here
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I am bullied everyday because of my curly hair.
Woah curly hair twins . I was never bullied for my hair though. I don't think I've ever been seriously bullied. I've never been a bully either. I go to a private school where any potential aren't admitted and the bullies are either expelled or asked not to come back the next year. I've been lucky enough not to have to worry about being bullied.
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At the moment I prepare myself from bullies with a jar of Chutney and a small spoon.
If they start bullying, I pin them down and start force feeding them while saying "Who's a greedy boy then? What's that? No more? no no, you have to eat it all!".

I'm a psychopath, but at least I'm a psychopath with a plan
Sounds like a weird fetish to me

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Yeah... I'm not so good with coming out with a punch line, the action of burning hot chutney going down the bully's gullet is what I find funny
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Yeah... I'm not so good with coming out with a punch line, the action of burning hot chutney going down the bully's gullet is what I find funny
Its not that, what you are planning to tell them sounds like its from a porno
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Its not that, what you are planning to tell them sounds like its from a porno
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I think I may go back to using a taser after realising that...
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I think I may go back to using a taser after realising that...
This is one ?I am bushed So Leaf Me Alone?
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Yeah... I'm not so good with coming out with a punch line, the action of burning hot chutney going down the bully's gullet is what I find funny
A punch Line Leaf Me Alone I'm Bush'd You nutty-gritty

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At the moment I prepare myself from bullies with a jar of Chutney and a small spoon.
If they start bullying, I pin them down and start force feeding them while saying "Who's a greedy boy then? What's that? No more? no no, you have to eat it all!".

I'm a psychopath, but at least I'm a psychopath with a plan
dafuq?

This has to be one of the weirdest things I've read on this forum and it's not the "ha ha" funny kind of weird. Just bizarre.

I've never understood why some people seem to act like it's "cool" or something to act psycho.
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dafuq?

This has to be one of the weirdest things I've read on this forum and it's not the "ha ha" funny kind of weird. Just bizarre.

I've never understood why some people seem to act like it's "cool" or something to act psycho.

Some men aren't looking for anything logical, like laughs. They can't be bought, bullied, reasoned or negotiated with. Some men just want to watch the forum burn.
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At the moment I prepare myself from bullies with a jar of Chutney and a small spoon.
If they start bullying, I pin them down and start force feeding them while saying "Who's a greedy boy then? What's that? No more? no no, you have to eat it all!".

I'm a psychopath, but at least I'm a psychopath with a plan
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Seriously, what?
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I was recently cyber-bullied here by some loser. Lol, cyber bullying.
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dafuq?

This has to be one of the weirdest things I've read on this forum and it's not the "ha ha" funny kind of weird. Just bizarre.

I've never understood why some people seem to act like it's "cool" or something to act psycho.
Act?
The fact I posted that kinda proves otherwise .-.

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Act?
The fact I posted that kinda proves otherwise .-.
Yes, act. How does that prove it? I can easily say something that comes across as psycho, but that doesn't mean I really am. It would only mean I'm acting psycho for attention.
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Honestly, I was bullied since Kindergarten until middle school and in my 2nd year of High School, that never happens no more to me. And I am sorry to everyone who has been bullied. And I am not a bully, never will be.
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Yes, act. How does that prove it? I can easily say something that comes across as psycho, but that doesn't mean I really am. It would only mean I'm acting psycho for attention.
Can't you just take joking around? -__-
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I have been bullied before but I always give them what they deserved on the spot. I am the type of person that if you hit me once, I will hit you back and will never stop until I hit you once, so the bully never lasts long on me.

There was a really big guy (2-3 times my size /I am tall but also slim =.=) who tried to bully me last year. Whenever he hit me once, I always hit him back until one day I was fed up with his behavior and I told him if he ever felt a stone on his head and if he would like to taste it. After that, the guy just stopped the bullying.
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Can't you just take joking around? -__-
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^True.
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Never been bullied. Never bullied others.

This may sound weird, but I've always wanted to fight a bully. I'm not about starting fights, but I always wanted some meathead to give me trouble - just for an excuse to knock their teeth in.
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Well we now know why your username is Not-so-shy-guy.
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Never been bullied. Never bullied others.

This may sound weird, but I've always wanted to fight a bully. I'm not about starting fights, but I always wanted some meathead to give me trouble - just for an excuse to knock their teeth in.
Its not as fun as it sounds. Usually the meathead's friends form a circle and it closes in on you. And you get in trouble for it because you have 16 witnesses saying that you threw the first punch for no reason. And in all honesty its not worth it unless they do something that you cant let slide. I am a veteran and survivor of middle school. Theyll back off eventually guys, it gets better
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^I agree with this.
One time I had a girl bully (Yes, a girl bullied me. Haha) and when I left my school to be homeschooled, all I said was to her was "I forgive you." and walked off.
A year later I was walking in the woods and I bumped into her, she was practically a changed person.
She said "I've stopped being a B*tch now, so yay!"
She even asked me how was I doing, and how my family was.
It just felt really heart-warming.

I sometimes wonder if it was because of what I said that made her change.
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Yeah, sorry to bring it up as if it's "fun." Obviously it is a serious situation, I'm just the type of person that gets really heated by other people's intolerance.

I have noticed a significant drop of bullies after making the transition from high school to college. So for all those struggling, stay strong - even if it sometimes seems impossible. Karma always comes around.
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not so shy guy, honestly this gives me encouraging hope
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I have 6 cats, 2 reptiles, I'm OCD, I think of evil schemes (Being on Roblox, you have to) every time I think of an invention I start making it out of anything I can find, I'm either extremely happy or extremely depressed with no middle point, I'm extremely cheap (I hate spending money on anything) I am obsessive at times and I sometimes sound like I'm 70 rather than 16.

One time when I was playing bowls (Already a example of the 70 years old) I did a really great shot, and I said "Damn, I wish I could take a picture of that!" and someone in his 60's-70's said "Get your mobile phone out and take a picture then."
I told him "I don't have one...".

He ended up breathless from laughter.
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A couple of isolated incidents with me, but nothing that required discipline or that haunted me. One time some kid was being an asshole to me during lunch in 8th grade, and I took an open pack of butter and shoved it down his shirt. That's really the only moment that stands out to me. It's definitely refreshing to see people who you remember as assholes, and to see that as high school ends, they're decent people.
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I was bullied for a while. Then I began to lift weights, get fit, and my confidence grew. When my confidence grew, the bullying stopped and no one wanted to mess with me . That has carried over. I do feel really bad for those who are being bullied, though. My only advice for you is to try your best to show it doesn't bother you. Obviously, that doesn't always work and sometimes the bullying is so intense nothing will stop it. If pretending it doesn't bother you doesn't work, then you need to let someone know. Those in school, just no that school is a very small part in our lives. People do mature, most of them anyways, and it won't always be this bad. Still, learning to deal with the small type bullying or "picking" now will help you in the long run . The guys at work like to mess with me occasionally and I am calm and collected and they stop pretty quick, so I was lucky and though bullying was a part in my life I would say it was a minor part.
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Someone once poured a bag of flamin hot cheetos in front of my locker. Not sure if that was an attempt at bullying, or whatever the hell a pile of flamin hot cheetos in front of a locker is supposed to mean. If that counts as bullying, then thats the worst thats ever happened to me.

EDIT: i forgot to say i dont know who did it. To this very day its still a mystery
I had something similar happen to me during middle school. Someone put slices of ham in my school bag. I had to throw that bag out and buy a new one because the ham smells lingered.
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I had something similar happen to me during middle school. Someone put slices of ham in my school bag. I had to throw that bag out and buy a new one because the ham smells lingered.
WHAT DOES IT MEAN?!?!!?
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Someone's very weird attempt at bullying, I guess? Only because I once made a big deal about not liking ham in my Home Economics class. I guess finding some ham in my bag was supposed to hurt my feelings and make me cry.
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Someone's very weird attempt at bullying, I guess? Only because I once made a big deal about not liking ham in my Home Economics class. I guess finding some ham in my bag was supposed to hurt my feelings and make me cry.
ok, so theres at least a reason for what happened to you, but what does a pile of flamin hot cheetos in front of my locker mean? ive never had any opinions about them one way or the other.
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ok, so theres at least a reason for what happened to you, but what does a pile of flamin hot cheetos in front of my locker mean? ive never had any opinions about them one way or the other.
That is pretty weird and my first guess would be someone just happen to pour them there to annoy you for reason(s) unknown, or maybe it was an accident? Or maybe someone has a crush on you and that was their way of telling you, you're hot, lol.
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it couldnt have been an accident, they were all brushed up close to my locker. and there is literally zero less clear ways of trying to tell someone something than with a pile of cheetos
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A boy used to bother me and cover my mouth and do other bad things to me back in kindergaturn.
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it couldnt have been an accident, they were all brushed up close to my locker. and there is literally zero less clear ways of trying to tell someone something than with a pile of cheetos
It means someone thought you were hungry
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ok, so theres at least a reason for what happened to you, but what does a pile of flamin hot cheetos in front of my locker mean? ive never had any opinions about them one way or the other.
Dude, you got free flamin hot cheetos, why complain??!?

Also, I didn't get bullied too much. Had one kid make fun of me for being fat, but he ended up becoming twice as fat as me (at least in high school).

In all honesty, I was so tall and large as a kid that it gave the illusion that I was full of muscle. I even had a bunch of coaches and football players tell me that I need to join the football team because of my body.

I wonder what life would have been like if I joined Football instead of marching band...
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Dude, you got free flamin hot cheetos, why complain??!?

Also, I didn't get bullied too much. Had one kid make fun of me for being fat, but he ended up becoming twice as fat as me (at least in high school).

In all honesty, I was so tall and large as a kid that it gave the illusion that I was full of muscle. I even had a bunch of coaches and football players tell me that I need to join the football team because of my body.

I wonder what life would have been like if I joined Football instead of marching band...
Painful and not as musical.
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Lets see when was in elementary some boy used to keep pulling my hair (it was usually in a pony tail and it was long and blond)

I told him to stop three times. The next time i lifted my foot and backwards kicked him hard in the knee (lucky him i didn't go higher). Let's just say there wasn't any problem after that.

Some kids in middle school used to make fun of me for being Skinny. (Seriously?) Saying that i was anorexic which isn't the case i am just generally small built and tall. I knew they were jealous. Most of those kids didn't even make it past Middle School as far as i knew.
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I was bullied in 2nd grade I got tired of it and fought the bully ever since then ive never been bullied.
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Lets see when was in elementary some boy used to keep pulling my hair (it was usually in a pony tail and it was long and blond)

I told him to stop three times. The next time i lifted my foot and backwards kicked him hard in the knee (lucky him i didn't go higher). Let's just say there wasn't any problem after that.

Some kids in middle school used to make fun of me for being Skinny. (Seriously?) Saying that i was anorexic which isn't the case i am just generally small built and tall. I knew they were jealous. Most of those kids didn't even make it past Middle School as far as i knew.
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I think bullying is innate to human society. There is no getting rid of it. It still sucks though.
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I am still bullied even though I say to stop. And the bully is my 'best friend.' Well not anymore B**chy MaGee. Jay's got a free
life. I do still have other friends though.

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So we're playing at recess and I tag him. He says 'this is going to be easy' like a full grown ****** and then he pushes me. He laughs. Its supposed to be tag
f***-o. The game's not called push.
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People in high school called me "emo" because of the way I dressed and how i had my hair cut. It's really sad that people have to put a label on everything just so they can be more secure about themselves. They end up missing out on a really good opportunity for a friendship.
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If someone ever tried to bully me i would just say something smart back to them then they would keep their mouth shut and sometimes they would even feel dumb for trying to make fun of me in the first place.im in cyber school now so yeah but i have never been bullied to a bad extent.im sorry for those who have been.

Awe and i just found out my little nine year old cousin gets bullied the girls in her class call her fat and find any little reason to make fun of her i wish i was nine again(im 19) and in her class that way i could defend her and what really gets to me is that she told her teacher and her teacher does nothing about it if some is not done soon im going to take matters into my own hands at all costs.

people need to realize that their words and actions have very serious consequences(some which include death)whether its verbal or physical abuse it all needs to stop.

Physical abuse needs to stop because the victom can accidently be killed from the physical blows done to their body,and even though thr bullys intention was to severely harm but not kill their victom the results are that person will go to jail probably for the rest of their lives,but not only that there will also be the loss of an innocent life.

verbal abuse also needs to stop because to some people words may only be a swing of letters put together in a smart way and use them towards other to make them self feel better ,but to others words are very harmful,perhaps at home their life may already be falling to pieces and your verbal abuse adds to the pain that the person is already going through,which ultimately can some times lead to some one killing them selfs because they can no longer deal with all their pain.

these both combined can also lead to self medicating,self harm,loss of self esteem ,and possibly anorexia depending on which harmful words or physical things you have done to the person which can lead to these possible unessessary and preventable outcomes.

people need to open their minds and eyes and realize what bullying can do and that it is a very serious problem and topic ,and also that the consequences can be fatal to the victims.stop the bullying and you just may save a life.

Hopefully things will be better in the future.
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Not really, only in grade 7 there was an insecure kid who used to pick on everyone in our class including me, but I always ignored him and pitied him for some reason.

Other than that, I've been in the same school since Kindergarten (now I'm in my last year of high school), so thankfully I get along with almost everyone.
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I think this song perfectly fits the topic

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i was bullied a little bit in middle school, but then again who doesn't? it's okay though because i was a lot better in highschool. most "popular" people who bullied others in highschool don't do well in real life. They don't even go to college!
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I get pushed down the hill in my school alot. Doesn't really hurt or anything, but my uniform gets ruined. BTW this happens because I own an Android
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I bullied a bull at some point.

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in 3rd i got buillied by this kid named AJ.I kept on insulting till he stopped calling me "reading geek" and "shi ty face" my best insult was when he copied off my paper on a test and i called him dumball: he tattled and told the teacher i called him doomface "LOL" i got in trouble but i laughed about it later * deep breath for another paragraph * eh ill say next para later .-.
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Luckily I was never bullied through out my years of school. I was always seen as part of the 'cool' group. But unlike others who would spend their time being the bully, I would always stop them. And actually talk to everyone I could. I guess because of that our school was much better off, and bullying wasnt an issue. I'm sure it sounds like I'm talking myself up. But I'm proud of myself and what responsibility I really had.
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I wouldn't say I've ever been physically bullied, just verbally (which is probably worse, for me anyway). People at my school tended to be and are occasionally still extremely narcissistic/egotistic. It's as if you can't have any form of free will without having someone badger you for it over and over. We are all different people with different opinions and personal interests, what would a person possibly gain from insulting someone whose ideas differed from theirs? :/

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I could never understand what would make people feel as though their personal opinion is any better/stronger than someone elses. And it can be something as simple as music...
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I still am being bullied by someone four years older from time to time. Same with brother. Once he pushed me off my bike for no reason.
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I wouldn't say I've ever been physically bullied, just verbally (which is probably worse). People at my school tended to be and are occasionally still extremely narcissistic/egotistic. It's as if you can't have any form of free will without having someone badger you for it over and over. We are all different people with different opinions and personal interests, what would a person possibly gain from insulting someone whose ideas differed from theirs? :/
An ego boost: putting somebody down and making them feel inferior for his tastes does wonders for your own self-esteem. It's cool though. Eventually being different and thinking differently turns into a good thing.. unless you're pervy. There's no positive spin on that.
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Well to be honest i've never been bullied , but I was a bully >.< I used to make fun of people and troll online >.< Until I realized that I'm grown up and its of no use , you won't gain anything from bullying people but make them sad.. I feel ashamed :/
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Back in my 2nd Grade school year there was this kid. He always took his name tag and tried to jab me in the arm with it (it's one of those name tags that has a pin on it so it can pass through your shirt and back into a small grip. Same kind of pin you see on buttons you wear). But he always wanted to come to my house, and thought we were friends. I think of this as some sort of desperation into getting my intention, or some sort of mental issue. It has stuff to do with his family, but I don't want to share that info.

A few years back there was this kid who did multiple things. Spat in my face, and even shoved me into the school's car line (mind you this was when school ended, so there was obviously a bunch of cars). But after some help from the guidance counselor it stopped. He actually started being kind to me after that. I don't know if that's him pretending to be nice, or he felt guilty for his actions and started making up for it.
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I was bullied from pretty much when school started for me to the start of the second half of freshman year. I don't know why everyone suddenly stopped xD.
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Nah, I kid tried to but I ignored him, and he took a swing and I ran for the hills (the kid was a foot taller and 2 years older).

Other then that, not at all. Oh, the wonders of home school.
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I've actually been homeschooled all my life. But, some of the kids in the neighborhood may have been hostile torwards me in the past. My friend, I think he's my friend still, pushes me a lot. I just push back, harder. I think he's just horseplaying. But, he did call my cousing annoying right in front of him. I don't think he's much of a bully though.

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Its not as fun as it sounds. Usually the meathead's friends form a circle and it closes in on you. And you get in trouble for it because you have 16 witnesses saying that you threw the first punch for no reason. And in all honesty its not worth it unless they do something that you cant let slide. I am a veteran and survivor of middle school. Theyll back off eventually guys, it gets better
hehe....that usually only happens in movies
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I was bullied, and I even got stangled 4 years ago.

since 3 years ago I became more confident and now if something happens, like really idiotic, I can be very furious and they wished they had left me alone.

Thats actually a pretty good result of bullied.
I still am victim of fun making but I ignore it, but if its getting fysical, above, He will be sorry to mess with me.
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Of course.
I'm still in school, and now i've gotten over it, if someone insults me, i turn it into a joke or insult them back even better.
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Yeah, though not recently.

Bullies prey on your insecurities for a reaction to feel better than you. It is like some sort of dominance game, I think in some cases the bullies don't even realise they are being bullies, it is just after you overcome the phase and you think about your actions. It can also be you don't think you've been bullied until you think back and start to relate past happenings.

I had a couple of cousins bullying me in their visits, as I would not really tell on them. I had some girls bullying me at school too, I was a teacher's pet and introverted which now I understand came across as snobbish, as if I was too good to hang with them or something.

Thing is we take ourselves way too seriously, once you stop feeling the need to stand up because you don't think it matters if a kid calls you fat-nose or something you will stop reacting. Unless is physical think that words are just human sounds.

Maybe I was just lucky but I had a kid with similar body shape than mine making fun of me for no reason, I figured I could chase him and retaliate and after that, perhaps for standing for myself, we became friends. I guess we were both insecure and after that we felt in the same team instead of playing the dominance game.

I read something that helped me through those years, I have forgotten the story surrounding it but this is the main thing "If someone brings a gift and you don't accept it, who does that gift belongs to?" It is the same with negative stuff people throw at your life. You have the choice not to take it.

Accept yourself, learn to make fun of your own weaknesses, that way when someone else does you can laugh with them or easily brush it up. I know easier said than done but by doing things you enjoy you will have your small success that will get your confidence up. That shows, they target you because they think you won't return it or even if you do it is something they can take. Other reasons to bully you is because they think you deserve it, so if it happens too often maybe you need to stop and think of your past actions, it may be the case you're their bully and didn't realised it.
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We all get bullied..my story is too long but Ill still say the people who bully you are only insecure about their own selves. Ive been bullied for all sorts of things. Racists, jealous cliques, or just because people are coldhearted in general. but you'll find the people who make your life worth living in exchange for all the pain the others have caused. and I agree with you up there ^
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i remember this kid used to bully me and call me fat and other names for two years. until one day i decided to stand up to him after he took my bike and his friend punched me in the stomach. i went home crying and waited until he came out again and went out there to pick a fight with him. turns out bully didn't even know how to fight. haha. didn't lay a single punch or kick on me. and after a bit of me punching him he backed out. next day he wouldn't even look at me in the eye.

to anyone getting bullied now. you should just think about yourself for a bit. feeling down won't help. you have to value yourself as a person. no matter how bad people treat you keep your head up high. and don't listen to anything bad people say. there is only one of you. and you are awesome. trust me. why care about things people will say or try to do to you. if its verbal bullying just ignore it. and as soon as people realize you don't care about the thrash talk they'll stop bugging you. or every time they bug you remind them of how awesome you are. a big ego is not a bad thing people.
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I had one bully, when I was young. I was the new kid in school, and he thought I'd be an easy target. However I was lucky, my father was a redneck, so I stood up to the bully. Found out he was being abused by his own parents so, we ended up being distant friends after it all.

The thing often forgotten when dealing with bullies is that there is a reason to their madness, and it's almost always parents, or part of a vicious cycle of siblings and peers. I pity the bully almost as much as their victims, it's a horrible and vicious cycle of abuse.
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Old 07-15-2013, 12:07 AM
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In 9th and 10th grade I was, but I think the content of it is probably not appropriate for this forum. Too many young'uns here.
I don't mind talking about it now if you are older and want to know.
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